Sweet Dreams

A lullaby, a whispered prayer,
Loving kisses on the brow,
Sweet dreams wished, the light blown out,
The sandman comes; he comes right now.

Mother tiptoes from the room,
A dark and stormy night,
Crashing thunder shakes the chamber,
The dozing toddler wakes in fright.

Shadows dancing, eerily prancing,
Imagination wild,
Monsters groaning, a whimpered moaning,
Time to soothe a wide-eyed child.

“A candle please, oh mother dear,
The darkness scares me so,
Fang-ed creatures, furry beasts,
Flying to and fro.”

“There are no creatures,” mother said,
“Creeping, crawling, free.
‘Tis shadows playing in the room,
No beasts to fear, you see.”

“But mother dear, a noise I heard,
At window pane ’tis true.
“My child fear not, the wind it howls,
A limb has frightened you.”

The candle dimly lit the room,
No monsters on the floor,
The maple’s limb on windowpane,
The scraping scares no more.

“My child remember in your heart,
For what I say ’tis true,
God never slumbers; nor doth sleep,
He watches over you.”

“Now close your eyes and say a prayer,
His peace your heart can calm.
The noise and shadows of this night,
Replaced by Heaven’s balm.”

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Should Christians Disarm?

(Made some revisions but I wrote this originally in November of 2010…Everything still very much applicable today.)

A couple of weeks ago, a teenager asked for the Bible reference detailing a Christian’s obligation to obey the government provided no demands violated the laws of God. The exact reference failed to come to mind, so later I Googled a few key words and bingo, Romans 13:1-7 popped up. I texted the findings to the young man and awaited follow-up questions. The next inquiry he posed threw me for a loop.

As we fellow-shipped around a table this past Sunday, the topic of guns arose. With a government intent on stripping Americans of their Constitutional liberties, he wondered how to respond if those in Washington voted to confiscate our guns. “Do we obey the government in this instance?” he asked. I sat dumbfounded, not knowing how to answer.

Over the past few days, I’ve given the question considerable thought. The issue of the “right to bear arms” stirs the hearts of a majority of Americans. Most conservatives strongly support the second amendment, while many liberals vehemently oppose, claiming the “living Constitution” needs an overhaul. Joseph Story, a prominent 19th century lawyer and jurist on the Supreme Court penned that the Constitution has a “fixed, uniform, permanent construction. It should be…not dependent upon the passions or parties of particular times, but the same yesterday, today and forever.” This premise suggests that judges should not veer from the literal text’s meaning. And according to quotes by the Founding Fathers, American citizens deserved the right of gun ownership. Thomas Jefferson said, “No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms. The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in the government.” However, the question remains, if the federal government enacts legislation to disarm its citizens, should Christians peaceably comply?

When the Founding Fathers met to hash out the wording of the Constitution, three long months of vigorous debate passed. Finally, a spirit of consensus permeated the hallowed halls of the Pennsylvania State House. The Founders settled in to inspect what final product emanated from such vigorous deliberation. Washington and Madison believed a Divine Hand guided the efforts, calling the Constitution a “miracle.”

Other Founding Fathers concurred. Charles Pinckney of South Carolina said, “When the great work was done and published, I was struck with amazement. Nothing less than that superintending hand of Providence, that so miraculously carried us through the war, could have brought it about so complete…” Alexander Hamilton agreed with such sentiments and added, “For my part, I sincerely esteem it a system which, without the finger of God, never could have been suggested and agreed upon by such a diversity of interests.” In other words, the Founding Fathers experienced something supernatural at the Convention, prompting these great statesmen to credit God for the outcome.

Maybe this is a stretch, but here it goes. If God inspired our Founding Fathers to create the document esteemed as the “supreme Law of the Land”, the writers made no mistake in including a fundamental “right to bear arms.”  So is the Constitution infallible as the Word of God? Of course not! But as the old saying quips, “If it ain’t broke don’t fix it.” Daniel Webster wrote, “I regard it (the Constitution) as the work of the purest of patriots and wisest statesmen that ever existed, aided by the smiles of a benign Providence; it almost appears a Divine interposition in our behalf…the hand that destroys our Constitution rends our Union asunder forever.”

Maybe oft times controversial conservative talk show host Rush Limbaugh sums it up best: “You know why there’s a Second Amendment? In case the government fails to follow the first one.”

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Does God’s Opinion on Sin “Evolve?”

A few days ago, our President ignited a media firestorm when he personally endorsed gay marriage, a personal nod to gay rights activists on the heels of North Carolina’s approval of an amendment banning same sex marriage.  One only guesses he timed his endorsement for purposes of political gain; he shared his “evolved view” on the eve of a trip to plead for funds from Hollywood elitists.   After his announcement, 21 million dollars poured into his re-election campaign coffers, the choice to come out and support gay marriage obviously delighting his ostensibly liberal supporters.  With Twitter abuzz and the media ablaze, does it really matter?  Does the Obama/Biden decision to champion gay marriage impact America?  Simply put, yes.

According to news reports, the President’s panel of spiritual advisors expressed varying reactions to the President’s announcement, some expressing disappointment while others supported Obama’s decision.  One advisor suggested that Obama arrived at his moral epiphany after prayer.  An obvious question begs to be asked…to what “god?”

Man sees the outward appearance, but God sees the heart,” reads I Samuel 16:7.  No human possesses the ability to peek into the heart of man, investigating whether the Holy Spirit resides there or not.  So, only the President knows whether his claims of Christianity be authentic.  However, the Bible teaches in Matthew 12:33, “Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit.”  Hinting that God initiated a change of heart to embrace a sinful lifestyle reeks of heresy.  The reason?  God hates sin.

Notice, God hates sin…not the sinner.

An account in the life of Jesus in John Chapter 8 confirms this.

But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.  At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them.  The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery.  They made her stand before the group, and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery.  In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women.  Now what do you say?”  They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.

But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger.  When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”  Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.

At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left standing there.  Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they?  Has no one condemned you?”

“No one sir,” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you, “ Jesus declared.

Many people stop the account there in justifying their lifestyle choices.  However, Jesus added one more important statement, “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

In supporting gay marriage, some argue that God changed His opinion on homosexuality between the Old and New Testament.  Old Testament Law leaves no doubt about God’s opinion of homosexuality, but does the New remain strangely silent?  Romans 1:24 and following says, “Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.  They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator – who is forever praised.  Amen.  Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts.  Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.  In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another.  Men committed indecent acts with other men and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.”

God’s pretty clear on the topic.  But God’s also clear on the sinful nature of pre-marital sex, adultery, murder, lying, stealing, cheating, and a plethora of other behaviors falling into the category of sin.  When our opinions of sin “evolve” and in turn contradict God’s Word, who’s wrong?  We are.  The Bible states clearly, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.”   What God labeled as sin in the Bible, remains sin today.  Sadly, our culture hurtles toward self-destruction because of an “everyone did what was right in his own eyes” ideology.

Humanity’s evolving opinions matter not.

For, all men are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field; the grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever I Peter 1:24-25

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Pictures of Give Kids the World

Several hoped to see more pictures from our trip, so I decided to post photographs of the resort where we stayed.  Notice the “Candy Landish” design.  If you ever donate to charities, think about GKTW.  Over 90% of monies given ends up going to meet the needs of the children and their families who visit.  Enjoy! (Click on pictures to enlarge…)

Stay tuned for possible future entries about our trip!  A few other story ideas are currently brewing!

God Bless!

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Lost in Kissimmee

Our Make A Wish Vacation to Orlando ended early on the morning of April 28th. The phone jangled on the nightstand at 4:00 am, our wake-up call. We covered our bedhead with ball caps, brushed away our morning breath, stowed our luggage in the van, and bid a fond farewell to Give Kids the World. Pulling out onto the desolate highway, my wife studied the directions to Orlando International Airport. After about twenty minutes, we concluded that the last left should have been a right. We found ourselves stuck on a toll road headed west, when east led to our destination. Delaina punched in the number to GKTW and talked to a friendly volunteer at the front desk. She asked our whereabouts and explained how to get turned around. After driving an additional unnecessary twenty miles, we dropped our van off at National Car Rental and hustled into the airport terminal, bleary eyed and harried.

I blame the signs. The only complaint my wife and I shared about our trip focused on Florida road signs, or the lack thereof. Had the Florida Highway Dept. properly marked the exits, or displayed flashing signs reading, “Tourists, turn this way to the airport,” I’d not driven through two extra toll booths, tossing exact change into wide-mouthed metal funnels. At one point I considered blazing a trail across the median, whipping back to the east.  However, the issue of the toll booths and nosy intrusive cameras capturing offending drivers discouraged any thoughts of breaking the law.

Sadly, sometimes signs mislead and occasionally humans offer sketchy directions at best. But, there’s good news. God never has to stop and ask for directions.

I’ve served in youth ministry for almost twenty years. Over the past two decades, many teenagers raised the following question, “How do I know what direction to go? How do I know what God wants me to do?” I assure them God never disappoints those earnestly seeking Him. In fact, He promises in Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.”  Sometimes teens follow-up with, “How do I hear Him?”  The answer?  Learn to listen.

It’s an interesting phenomenon, but when I’m uncertain of my surroundings, and I’m searching for a specific highway marker or exit, I turn down the radio.  I’m not sure why, other than I want to focus on the task at hand.  Listening to God requires turning down the “volume” of the world, getting alone with the One who loves us more than any other.  It’s often during those quiet times we “hear” God speak.  When we need specific direction, Isaiah 30:21 promises, And your ears will hear a word behind you, “This is the way, walk in it,” whenever you turn to the right or to the left.

Although the final destination might seem unclear (ask Abraham!), God never needs to recalibrate.  He sees and knows the outcome.

We need only trust.

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Happy Mother’s Day!

Happy Mother's Day

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”  Proverbs 31:30

Happy Mother’s Day!

 

 

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Jesus Wants You Outta the Picture

Look at this picture closely.  Is someone missing?  After returning home from Give Kids the World and the Orlando Theme Parks, my wife and I took time to look at the

Family at Give Kids the World

photographs.  We quickly realized that I seldom squeezed into the picture because I served as family photographer while on the trip.  In the Mickey and Minnie picture, you assume I’m snapping the shot, but if you make that assumption, it’s wrong.  On that morning, I attended a mandatory orientation meeting for all new arrivals to Give Kids the World resort.  While Mickey and Minnie wowed the family and posed for snapshots, I learned the history of GKTW, learned about area attractions, and the presenter handed me a packet containing passes to Disney World, Sea World, and a Fast Pass to hand to ride operators for the purpose of bypassing lengthy, time consuming lines.  With such goodies being distributed, it was imperative that I attend the hour long meeting.  But alas, the compulsory meeting stole a golden opportunity for a family portrait.

When looking at the picture of Delaina, the kids, and Mickey and Minnie, a strange thought crossed my mind.  When the Lord returns, I wonder how many photographers will capture on film, family, with a loved one suddenly missing.  Imagine a person behind a camera, framing a family of six, standing with Disney characters, and as the shutter closes, more than half of the subjects vanish.   No, I’m not describing a scene from an old episode of the Twilight Zone, but depicting a very possible scenario at the Second Coming of Christ.

Jesus said, “When the Son of Man comes, it will be like what happened during Noah’s time.  In those days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving their children to be married, until the day Noah entered the boat.  They knew nothing about what was happening until the flood came and destroyed them.  It will be the same when the Son of Man returns.  Two men will be in the field.  One will be taken and the other will be left.  Two women will be grinding grain with a mill.  One will be taken, and the other will be left.

So always be ready, because you don’t know the day your Lord will come.” Matthew 24:37-42

I Thessalonians also addresses the Lord’s return.  “Brothers and sisters, we want you to know about those Christians who have died so you will not be sad, as others who have no hope.  We believe that Jesus died and that He rose again.  So, because of Him, God will raise with Jesus those who have died.  What we tell you now is the Lord’s own message.  We who are living when the Lord comes again will not go before those who have already died.  The Lord Himself will come down from Heaven with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet call of God.  And those who have died believing in Christ will rise first.  After that, we who are still alive will be gathered up with them in the air.  And we will be with the Lord forever.  So encourage each other with these words.” I Thessalonians 4:13-18

For a moment, imagine a loved one left behind, hanging that picture on a living room wall.  Every time someone gushes about the beauty of the family picture, the portrait tells the story time and time again.  A loved one’s missing…No one has to be in the picture.  In fact, no one wants to be in that Kodak moment.

The Bible encourages with these words, “Christ Himself suffered for sin once.  He was not guilty, but He suffered for those who are guilty to bring you to God.” I Peter 3:18  And, “The Lord is not slow in doing what He promised – the way some understand slowness.  But God is being patient with you.  He does not want anyone to be lost, but He wants all people to change their hearts and lives.”  II Peter 3:9

So, wipe that cheesy smile off your face; quit hamming it up for the camera.  There’s still time to accept Christ.  He wants you outta the picture.

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More Make A Wish Vacation Photographs

Several people commented that they desired to see more pictures from our Make A Wish Trip to Florida.  So, I’m posting a few more.  God Bless!

This trip offered our family a reprieve from thinking about Cancer and another year of treatment.  Thanks so much for your continued prayers for Noah and the rest of our family.

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My Son Said a Four-Letter Word

Last night, my wife and sat at the table admiring a five hundred piece puzzle my eldest son tackled earlier in the afternoon.  Our third born, Jonah, joined us to look at all of the differing pictures.  The puzzle showed various highlights from the Disney World theme parks.  A towering mountain loomed in the background, the Everest rollercoaster.  The mountain sparked vivid memories, recollections Jonah would rather not relive.  I listened as Jonah shared with his mother about his experience on the Everest ride.

Delaina: “So you don’t want to ride it again.”

Jonah:  “No.  It was scary.”

Delaina:  “Really?”

Jonah:  “Yeah, and I almost said a bad word.”

Delaina:  “You did?  I didn’t know you knew any bad words.  What did you want to say?”

Jonah:  “Are you sure you want me to say it out loud?”

Delaina:  “Yes, I think maybe you better.”

Jonah:  “Okay.  I almost said it was “dumb.”

After breathing a sigh of relief, I stifled a desire to laugh out loud.  (The conversation reminded me of scene in the Ramona and Beezus movie.)  He knew that we frowned on him calling his siblings “dumb,” so he assumed the word fell into the category of profanity.  Anyway, I kinda agree with him…maybe.  I’m not sure if he meant the roller coaster was dumb or buckling in for the ride garnered that classification.  I vote the latter.

Normally I shy away from thrill rides; my stomach lurches on carousels and merry-go-rounds.  However, this trip called me to step up and embrace the adventure.  We enjoyed our fast passes and quickly seated ourselves on the ride.  Here’s what happened:  We found ourselves on a train, climbing Mt. Everest in search of a Yeti.  Rattling up the mountain, we made contact with the hairy beast, and he’d ripped out a section of the tracks forcing an emergency stop.  The lights extinguished to utter darkness and the roller coaster traveled backwards at breakneck speeds, twisting and turning in the pitch black.   When the ordeal finally ended, I noticed Jonah hunkered over against the side of the car, attempting to curl into the fetal position.  My second born expressed it best.  “That was awesome, but I’m never doing it again.”  Jonah felt the same way and obviously he’s still experiencing flashbacks two weeks later.

I think the utter darkness bothered him the most.  Sadly, many people walk in this manner spiritually and express pleasure at their circumstance.  Why?  Because they love the “dark.”

This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil.  For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed.”  John 3:19-20

People reject Christ because of a passion for the dark, however such choices lead to a greater darkness still.  “For to everyone who has will more be given, and he will be furnished richly so that he will have an abundance; but from the one who does not have, even what he does have will be taken away.  And throw the good-for-nothing servant into the outer darkness; there will be weeping and grinding of teeth.”  Here in the Parable of the Talents, Jesus speaks of those refusing a personal relationship with God and the eternal consequence.  (The entire teaching is found in Matthew 25 beginning in verse 14.)

My wife and I hope to raise our children in a manner that pleases God and we’d love to hear our kids say that it’s “dumb” to participate in the world’s darkness.  I can think of other words to describe the choice of darkness over the Light of Christ, but “dumb” suffices…four-letter word or not.

(I’m participating in “Faith-Filled Fridays” at http://www.beholdingglory.com/.  Come and join us!)

 

 

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A Tribute to Moms for Mother’s Day

With Mother’s Day rapidly approaching, I thought it appropriate to share some of my favorite quotes about Mothers and Motherhood. Possibly some of these might come in handy when writing your mom a note of gratitude or adding a card to a bouquet of flowers. Granted, with some time browsing the internet, anyone can find these relatively famous sayings, but I’ve added one only heard in our household recently.  My son Nathan shared his thoughts on motherhood a few weeks ago and I waited for the perfect time to share it.

“A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest.” Irish Proverb

“All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel Mother.”  Abraham Lincoln

“The phrase ‘working mother’ is redundant.”  Jane Sellman

“I remember my mother’s prayers and they have always followed me.  They have clung to me all my life.”  Abraham Lincoln

“The death of a mother is the first sorrow wept without her. “ Author Unknown

“I’m glad God made me a boy so I’ll be a Dad. Moms seem to be a lot more busy.” Nathan, my son

“By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who don’t have regular time off.  They are the great vacationless class.”  Anne Morrow Lindbergh

“My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw.  All I am I owe to my mother.  I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual, and physical education I received from her.”  George Washington

“The mother’s heart is the child’s schoolroom.”  Henry Ward Beecher

“Only God Himself fully appreciates the influence of a Christian mother in the molding of character in her children.”  Billy Graham

Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother.” Lin Yutang

God blessed me with a wonderful mother and gifted me with a wife who serves as a fantastic mom to our four children.  To these two favorite women in my life I say, “Happy Mother’s Day!”

(In your comments (below), leave a tribute to your mother or share a favorite quote about moms!)

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